Navigating the insidious illness of Alzheimer’s is something nobody asks for. The disease sneaks up on you and your loved one, and it feels like you’ve been sucker-punched in the gut when you get the diagnosis from a doctor. So many things race through your mind: why us? What do we do? We worked so hard to get to this point in life. We just moved here after we both worked for 30 years, sold our house up North, and retired to Florida to enjoy our “golden years”. It’s not fair! Who’s going to take care of her/him? I don’t know a thing about this illness. She’s always done the cooking; I don’t even know how to boil water. He's always taken care of me and everything else like Finances. I don’t even drive! And it goes on and on. Facing this disease will bring you to your knees. Once you get over the initial shock (GUT PUNCHED), the questions and fears take hold. Where do we turn for help? Who do I call? What do I do? How do you take care of someone with Alzheimer's? Are there support groups? And questions like these just keep coming. I am a caregiver. I wasn’t before. Well, not this kind of caregiver. My wife was officially diagnosed in January of 2018. I had a sneaking suspicion that she might have something like this about 2 years earlier. So, when I brought it to my Neurologist, he sent us to a very nice Psychologist who specializes in testing patients to determine more accurately what is going on. It was a question-and-answer session, followed by a very detailed testing procedure that usually takes 3 or more hours. The patient has to complete the test comprising of questions, simple actions, and memory tests, then give them a couple of numbers or words then move on, going back to the numbers or words a short time later.
So moving forward, I asked all the same questions as mentioned earlier. What are my options? So I “sucked it up”-Manned up so to speak. It's part of the deal for better or worse, right? So began my quest for information on support groups, doctors, anything I could get my hands on. It's been 6 years, and I am still looking for everything and anything that will help me crawl through this unchartered path to enlightenment. I was very fortunate to live in a city that has numerous resources to tap into. Most importantly, it's a place named after someone who suffered from Alzheimer’s. His wife provided the money to start the Alvin Dubin Center: The Dubin Center for short. Their mission is to achieve caregiver health, strength, and resilience by providing education, information, hope, and compassion. And boy do they. I leaned on them for everything I could find. Took all kinds of classes to learn what I needed to do to be the caregiver I have to be. Their caregiver class took about 6 weeks. The material we learned from, and the instructors, were top-notch. I still go back to the notes I took, and the books we used: both as refreshers and inspiration. Hopefully, no matter where you are listening to this, there will be a place like the Dubin Center. If not, don’t despair. The info is out there. That’s what this podcast is about. We’d like to share our resources, our experiences, our heartbreak, and our little victories. From time to time, we’d like to bring in Physicians, Nurses, Experts, and people like you and me, who are going through this disease with our loved ones who are willing to share their journey. The first thing that really stuck with me, and hopefully it will be with you. If you are a caregiver, you must first take care of yourself. Because this is not a sprint, but a marathon. And if you are run down, get sick, or worse.... Who’s going to take care of your spouse, mother, father, or child? Think about that for a few seconds. It’s you, the Caregiver. It’s me the Caregiver. That’s why we’re here. Gut Punched: Alzheimer’s & Caregivers! Thanks for joining us...now let's get going.
In this eye-opening episode, host Jeff Edwards dives into the realities of caregiving with honesty, heart, and a touch of humor. Kicking off with reflections from a recent men’s caregiver support meeting, Jeff explores tough, but essential, topics like legal planning, death, grief, and guilt. It’s not “sexy,” but it’s crucial education for anyone on the caregiving journey.
Jeff welcomes Dr. William Justiz of Aqualane Critical Research, a deeply knowledgeable expert in Alzheimer’s care and research. Even Jeff, a seasoned caregiver and podcast host, found himself scribbling down notes. Listeners are guaranteed to walk away with new insights into Alzheimer’s that they probably didn’t know before.
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As always, Jeff walks through the GutPunched Tenets of Caregiving—practical, empowering rules for every caregiver:
Take care of yourself first.
You can’t do it alone, build your support network.
Make (and use) your help lists.
Create a help signal your loved one understands.
💬 "Caregiving: Love it or hate it, it will be your life until it’s not. Give it your all."
If you find value in the show, please subscribe, leave a 5-star review, and share it with anyone navigating Alzheimer’s or dementia care. Information and support are out there, and GutPunched is here to help you find both.
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In this heartfelt and candid episode of Gut Punched, host Jeff Edwards explores what he lovingly calls a “not a sexy topic”, the often unglamorous but vital conversations around Alzheimer’s disease and caregiving. With his signature blend of humor, honesty, and empathy, Jeff reminds listeners that while this subject might not be flashy, it's one that matters deeply—and sooner or later, touches all of us.
Returning to the podcast is Christine LeConte, Director of The Dubin Center, previously featured in Episode 25. One year later, Christine shares updates on how the center is progressing with its 2025 goals and what lies ahead for 2026. Spoiler alert: The Dubin Center is thriving, offering more support, resources, and community for those impacted by dementia.
The episode also dives into an article highlighting lifestyle and environmental factors that can increase your risk of developing dementia, continuing the show’s mission of educating and empowering caregivers and families with actionable insight.
Jeff reiterates the core tenets of caregiving that define the GutPunched ethos:
Care for yourself first; you can’t pour from an empty cup.
Don’t go it alone, seek help, community, and support.
Make & use support lists, know who’s offered help and what you need done.
Create a help signal, a shared cue to ensure your loved one feels safe with outside caregivers.
As always, Jeff brings real talk for real people navigating the emotional rollercoaster of Alzheimer’s and caregiving, offering not just resources, but hope, humor, and heart.
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If this episode resonates with you or someone you know, subscribe and leave a 5-star review. Share this podcast with caregivers, families, and friends, because while caregiving may not be “sexy,” it’s life-changing, and no one should do it alone.
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In this heartfelt and unflinchingly honest episode, host Jeff Edwards shares the gut-wrenching story of what happened when his wife became one of the rare 1% of Alzheimer’s patients who suffer serious side effects from an amyloid-clearing drug. And no—being in the 1% isn’t always the jackpot you’d hope for (though Jeff jokes maybe it’s time to buy a Powerball ticket).
From oatmeal explosions in the kitchen to an ER visit that could’ve taken a fatal turn, Jeff walks us through the day everything changed. It’s a crash course in the scary, unpredictable, and often misunderstood territory of anti-amyloid therapies. With warmth, raw vulnerability, and a touch of humor, he offers lessons every caregiver should hear—like why carrying a certain card could save your loved one’s life, and how "thinking on the fly" becomes part of the caregiver job description.
Whether you're knee-deep in caregiving or just beginning the journey, this episode serves up wisdom, hope, and a reminder that you're not alone. And above all, Jeff reminds us: the learning never stops, especially when your partner’s brain decides to throw a plot twist.
Welcome to September—World Alzheimer’s Awareness Month. Let’s talk, learn, and lift each other up.
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"My Wife is in the 1% — And It Almost Killed Her. It’s Not What You Think"
As hurricane season hits, host Jeff Edwards brings in a special guest to offer essential safety tips for caregivers—and anyone preparing for the unpredictable storms ahead. In this episode, Jeff sits down with retired Weather Service Meteorologist, David Gilhousen, to discuss what caregivers should know in the event of a hurricane. With practical advice and years of meteorological expertise, David shares what to expect, how to prepare, and how caregivers can protect their loved ones during storm season.
Additionally, Jeff revisits key caregiver strategies, including the importance of self-care, building a support network, and creating helpful lists to stay organized. Tune in for some real-world tips on how to manage caregiving during an emergency, and get a refresher on the "rules" Jeff follows at GutPunched to stay grounded in tough times.
This episode is a perfect balance of preparedness, care, and friendship—as David has been Jeff’s go-to source for accurate weather intel for years, and now he’s here to share it with all of us.
Upcoming in our next episode:
We’ll be talking about the things that can be learned from my wife’s recent severe reaction to an Alzheimer’s drug. If you are a Caregiver, we hope it will be as informative as it was an education for me.
Don’t miss it!
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In this heartfelt episode of Alzheimer’s and Caregivers, host Jeff Edwards invites you into a conversation that shines light on the powerful, yet often overwhelming, journey of caregiving. Caregiving, especially for those with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, is one of the most important roles anyone can undertake. Today, Jeff is joined by guest George Cecere, who opens up about his own personal experience, sharing both the challenges and the meaningful moments that come with caring for a loved one.
As always, GUTPUNCHED follows a simple, compassionate set of principles to help guide caregivers through the emotional and practical aspects of their journey. In this episode, Jeff emphasizes the following essential tenets:
Take care of yourself: You can’t pour from an empty cup. Self-care is crucial because if something happens to you, your loved one is left without support.
You don’t have to do this alone: Lean on your community. Whether it’s a caregiver support group, family, or close friends, don’t hesitate to ask for help.
Get organized: Make lists of people who have offered to help, and create a list of tasks that are overwhelming for you to handle on your own. Take it one step at a time, and don’t be afraid to ask for help to get things done.
Create a “Help Signal”: Establish a simple phrase or cue that lets your loved one know it’s okay to accept help. This can ease anxiety and make caregiving moments more comfortable for both of you.
Caregiving: Love it or hate it, it’s your life until it’s not: Pour your heart into it because caregiving, while challenging, brings profound moments of love and connection.
This episode is a warm reminder that while caregiving can sometimes feel like an isolating experience, you are not alone. There are resources, support, and hope to be found, and GUTPUNCHED is here to walk alongside you every step of the way.
If this episode resonates with you, please subscribe and leave a 5-star review. And, if you know someone who might need a little extra support in their caregiving journey, share this podcast with them. There’s help and hope out there; all you need is to know where to find it, and that’s exactly what we’re here to help with.
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Welcome to GutPunched: Alzheimer’s and Caregivers, Episode 65!
Ever wondered what happens when Alzheimer’s, an author, a poet, dementia, a musician, and a nurse all walk into a room together? No, it’s not the setup for a bad joke—it’s the perfect mix for today’s podcast!
Our guest today is Mr. Bob Shea from Elder Entertainment, a creative dynamo with a heart for Alzheimer's awareness. Bob, who wears many hats (author, poet, musician, nurse), joins host Jeff Edwards to share his unique perspective on Alzheimer's care and the healing power of creativity.
Plus, don’t miss the latest Alzheimer’s research! We wrap up with an article about a promising Diabetes Blood Test that could predict Alzheimer’s decline. Talk about medical breakthroughs Science is awesome and sometimes, even a little mind-blowing.
As always, we start by revisiting the GutPunched Tenets—the rules we live by, because let’s face it, caregiving can be tough, and you’ve gotta be on top of your game to survive it:
Take care of yourself—if you break down, who’s there for your loved one?
You can’t do this alone—find a good support network.
Make a list of people who’ve offered help. Write down what needs doing and go through the list until it’s all handled.
Create a “help signal”—something that tells your loved one it's okay to get the help they need.
Then we get a little poetic with a reading from Bob’s book, Peekaboo: I See Miracles—Musings of Musical Memories and Alzheimer’s Disease. A hauntingly beautiful first stanza of his poem “In Here” sets the stage for a conversation that’s as deep as it is creative.
After the interview, Jeff and Bob share their thoughts on the magic that happens when creativity meets caregiving, a reminder that even in the toughest times, there’s always room for something meaningful and maybe even a little joyful.
Whether you’re a caregiver or just curious, this episode is packed with inspiration, insight, and a touch of humor. So grab your coffee (or your harmonica) and tune in!
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In this episode of GutPunched: Alzheimer’s and Caregivers, host Jeff Edwards serves up some much-needed wisdom—and a side of humor—as he navigates the challenges caregivers face during long, hot summers with no holiday respite in sight. Can’t escape the heat, but you can take a moment to laugh and reflect with Jeff’s signature wit.
As always, Jeff goes over the "Tennents" (yes, he means tenets) that guide this podcast, offering light yet essential advice for anyone in the caregiving trenches:
of your loved one?
You can’t do it alone—find support through groups, friends, and family.
Make a list—and use it! A list of people willing to help + tasks that need doing = one less stress for you.
Create a help signal—find a cue or phrase that lets your loved one know it's okay to accept help.
In this episode, Jeff also sits down with Cynthia Perthuis, a Senior Care expert from Senior Care Authority, New York & Florida. Together, they tackle the big, elephant-sized decision of moving your loved one into an assisted living community. Cynthia breaks it down for us: the where, the when, and most importantly, the how. Moving someone to a new care facility can feel overwhelming, but with the right guidance and approach, it’s more manageable than it seems.
So, grab your list, find your support, and tune in for some much-needed tips on how to eat that metaphorical elephant—one bite at a time.
It’s insightful. It’s practical. And yes, it’s still GutPunched, so you know we’re keeping it light along the way!
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This week, Jeff explores the often-blurry line between the beginning and early middle stages of Alzheimer’s—and what that means for you, the caregiver.
🎙️ GutPunched: Alzheimer’s & Caregivers – Ep. 62
🧠 Beginning Stages vs. Early Middle Stages of Alzheimer’s
👤 Host: Jeff Edwards | 🎧 Guest: Morgan Van Dyke
💬 Joined by fan-favorite guest Morgan Van Dyke (Ep. 51), they break down:
✔️ Key similarities & differences between the stages
✔️ Subtle changes in behavior & care needs
✔️ Real-world strategies to adapt your caregiving
Plus, a reminder of our four caregiver tenets:
1️⃣ Take care of yourself
2️⃣ Don’t go it alone – ask for help
3️⃣ Use your support lists
4️⃣ Create a “Help Signal” 🆘
💡 This episode is filled with honesty, hope, and small victories—including a positive update from Jeff’s Men’s Caregivers Group 🙌
🎆 As we head into July 4th, a reminder: caregiving doesn’t take holidays. Even 10 minutes of peace is a win.
🎧 Listen now—your caregiver's heart will thank you.
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In this heartfelt and eye-opening 60th episode of GutPunched: Alzheimer’s and Caregivers, host Jeff Edwards reflects on milestones, both personal and universal. It’s Father’s Day weekend, June is Alzheimer’s and Brain Awareness Month, and we’ve hit 60 episodes of this powerful journey.
Jeff kicks things off with a sobering yet timely question: Is there a connection between fathers who have Alzheimer’s and your own risk of developing it? Then Jeff sets the stage for an incredibly meaningful and sincere conversation with Dr. Ed Shaw about Keeping Love Alive As Memories Fade.
Dr. Shaw is not only a former caregiver but also a four-time author, national speaker, part-time counselor, and leader of caregiver support groups. Most importantly, he speaks from experience, with clarity, compassion, and purpose. In this episode, he shares insights from his book, Keeping Love Alive as Memories Fade, introducing the Five Love Languages and how they can be adapted to deepen connection with loved ones who are living with dementia.
This interview is more than informational; it’s deeply moving. Dr. Shaw’s personal stories and professional wisdom give caregivers a new lens to see their roles, and their relationships, with renewed empathy and hope.
As always, Jeff reminds us of the four grounding rules that GutPunched listeners have come to rely on:
Take care of yourself.
You can't do this alone—get help.
Make a list, and use it.
Create a help signal for your loved one.
This isn’t just another podcast episode—it’s a reminder of why caregiving matters, and how love, even in the face of memory loss, can still be nurtured and expressed.
Listen in. Take notes. And above all, know you’re not alone. GUTPUNCHED: ALZHEIMER’S AND CAREGIVERS. GUTPUNCHED.COM
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GUTPUNCHED: ALZHEIMER’S AND CAREGIVERS Episode 56 OR Just the Facts, Ma'am, Just the Facts"
In this episode, host Jeff Edwards delves into the latest statistical insights from the Alzheimer’s Association’s 2025 “Alzheimer’s Disease Facts and Figures” report. The discussion focuses on the escalating prevalence of Alzheimer's disease, its impact on the aging population, and the profound effects on caregivers.
Key Topics Covered: Prevalence and Mortality: Economic Impact: Caregiver Challenges, Demographic Disparities:
Read the full 2025 Facts and Figures report
This episode provides a comprehensive overview of the current state of Alzheimer's disease in the United States, emphasizing the importance of awareness, early detection, and support for both individuals affected and their caregivers.
As always, Jeff revisits his four golden rules for caregiving, offering grounded advice and practical strategies to help listeners stay resilient and supported in their roles.
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In this moving and deeply personal episode of GutPunched, host Jeff Edwards brings us into the heart of caregiving with former Wisconsin Governor Martin J. Schreiber, who lovingly cared for his wife Elaine for nearly two decades following her Alzheimer’s diagnosis. Their story, captured in his powerful memoir My Two Elaines: Learning, Coping, and Surviving as an Alzheimer’s Caregiver, is part love story, part survival guide — and wholly unforgettable.
Jeff opens the episode with warmth and honesty, offering listeners timely reflections and new caregiver "rules" — practical, compassionate tools for navigating the emotional and logistical weight of caring for a loved one with Alzheimer’s. Rule #4 is especially poignant: Create a Help Signal, a gentle yet empowering strategy to give those with memory loss a sense of safety and choice when receiving care.
Then, Marty shares the raw, often painful journey of loving both versions of his wife — the woman he married, and the woman Alzheimer’s slowly reshaped. With grace, humor, and remarkable humility, he reflects on the heartbreak of being forgotten and the quiet joys that still managed to bloom through the fog of the disease. At 85, Marty doesn’t just talk about caregiving — he lived it, and he shares hard-won wisdom that challenges, heals, and uplifts.
Jeff doesn't hold back when he says this conversation touched him in ways few others have. It’s more than a podcast episode — it’s a reminder that even amid loss, there can be meaning, connection, and yes… even joy.
Visit MyTwoElaines.com to learn more about Marty’s book, and keep an eye out for it on GUTPUNCHED.COM soon.
This one’s for the caregivers — past, present, and future. You are not alone.
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Welcome back to GutPunched: Alzheimer’s and Caregivers, where we don’t sugarcoat the challenges of caregiving—but we do walk through them together.
In this episode, host Jeff Edwards starts with a check-in: Are you remembering the caregiver rules? Are you making those lists, seeking support, and taking care of you? Because, as always, Rule #1 stands strong—you can’t care for someone else if you’re not caring for yourself first.
Whether you’ve been listening from the beginning or just joining in, Jeff revisits the three simple but vital guidelines that keep caregivers grounded, connected, and sane:
Take care of yourself—because your well-being is essential to your loved one’s.
Don’t go it alone—support groups, friends, and family are your lifeline.
Make a list—and use it. You’ll be surprised what happens when you ask for help.
Then we move into something hopeful: an exploration of how stem cell treatment may offer new promise in improving Alzheimer’s symptoms. It’s a developing field—but one that’s worth paying attention to.
We also hear from Morgan Van Dyke of Assisting Hands, who shares a wealth of practical caregiving insights—especially helpful for those navigating the early stages of Alzheimer’s. From small adjustments to bigger-picture planning, Morgan’s advice is something every caregiver will want to jot down.
So take a breath. Grab something to write with. And let’s dive in—because information is power, and you don’t have to face this journey alone.
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