The Life Shift

The Life Shift

The Life Shift shares real and honest conversations about the moments that change us. Host Matt Gilhooly sits with guests as they tell true stories of life-changing events, unexpected challenges, and quiet awakenings that shaped who they are today.

Each episode offers meaningful and candid storytelling about grief, healing, resilience, identity, and growth. These are the personal stories that remind us what it feels like to be human. These are the turning points that stay with us.

If you are drawn to personal growth, emotional well-being, or stories of how people rebuild after loss, this show offers a gentle place to land. Listeners come for the life changes. They stay for the connection.

New episodes every Tuesday.

For more information, please visit https://www.thelifeshiftpodcast.com

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Grief Can Be a Love Story Too

What if your greatest teacher had four legs and an endless capacity for love?

When licensed therapist Brianna Laricchia lost her dog Molly, the grief cracked her heart wide open. It wasn’t just about losing a pet — it was about losing a constant, unconditional presence that had shaped who she was. In this conversation, Brianna shares how that loss transformed her both personally and professionally, leading her to specialize in grief counseling for others walking the same tender path.

You’ll hear:

  • How loving and losing Molly reshaped Brianna’s understanding of empathy and connection
  • What she’s learned about the unique grief of losing a pet
  • How she built Omnia Psychotherapy Group to help others heal through compassion, presence, and shared humanity

If you’ve ever loved an animal like family, this episode will feel like a gentle hand on your shoulder.

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Guest Bio

Brianna Laricchia is a licensed mental health counselor and the founder of Omnia Psychotherapy Group, a private practice based in New York. She specializes in grief counseling, focusing on pet loss and the emotional bonds we form with our animals. After losing her beloved dog, Molly, Brianna found her calling in helping others navigate the often-overlooked pain of pet loss. Through her work, she bridges professional expertise with deep empathy, creating safe spaces for healing and remembrance.

www.omniapsychotherapygroup.com

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Dec 23, 2025 6:0 AM
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When Clarity Comes After the Mess | Bonus

This episode is part of The Things We Carry, a solo series shaped by the themes that stay with me long after the conversations on The Life Shift.

Today I am talking about those disorienting moments when the life you have been living suddenly feels unfamiliar. The pieces stop fitting together. The story you have been telling yourself begins to crack. And you find yourself standing in the in between, unsure of what comes next.

In this reflection, I talk about confusion as part of the process, not a sign that something is wrong. Change is rarely neat or straightforward. It often begins in the fog, in the exhaustion, in the quiet moments when you realize you cannot keep pretending everything is fine. Sometimes clarity arrives only after the breaking open. Sometimes it comes through rest, or release, or the small permission to stop holding everything together.

If you are in a season where nothing feels clear, I hope this episode gives you a softer place to stand. You do not need a full map. You do not need to rush the unfolding. It is enough to notice what is shifting inside you and trust that clarity often grows from confusion, one moment at a time.

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Dec 21, 2025 1:0 PM
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When Podcasting Starts Changing You | A Live Conversation on Storytelling and Hosting

If you have ever been curious about what actually happens behind the scenes of a meaningful conversation, this livestream is an open door. Not polished. Not rehearsed. Just two hosts sitting together in real time, talking honestly about why we keep doing this work and how it keeps changing us.

This special co-hosted livestream on Riverside brought me together with Angela Hollowell to reflect on podcasting, storytelling, and the quiet evolution that happens when you keep showing up. We talked about how our shows began, how different our approaches are, and how both are rooted in care and intention. We explored the learning curve of hosting, creating safety without scripting everything, and letting conversations breathe. Somewhere in the middle of it all, I said something out loud that surprised even me. That podcasting has softened me. That it has made me more forgiving of myself. And that it might be the best thing I have ever done for me.

This conversation is less about tactics and more about trust. About curiosity. About giving yourself permission to do it your own way. If you joined us live, thank you for being part of that moment. If you are listening now, I hope this reminds you that there is more than one right way to tell a story and you do not have to do it perfectly for it to matter.

What You’ll Hear

  • Different podcasting styles grounded in care
  • Creating safety without controlling the outcome
  • The hosting learning curve and releasing perfection
  • How storytelling changes the people holding the space
  • Why continuing to show up can quietly change you

Co-Host Bio

Angela Hollowell is the creator of the Please Hustle Responsibly newsletter and the host of the Honey and Hustle podcast. Through both, she highlights North Carolina founders, creators, and nonprofit leaders with care, specificity, and deep respect for the full human story. Her work centers on thoughtful storytelling, community, and creating access to conversations that help people feel less alone in their work and lives.

Please Hustle Responsibly: https://www.pleasehustleresponsibly.com/

Honey and Hustle Podcast: https://www.honeyandhustle.co/


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00:58:13
Dec 19, 2025 1:5 PM
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The Life Shift
The Moment Robb Kelly Stopped Running From Himself

What if the lowest point in your life was actually your turning point?

Dr. Robb Kelly knows what it means to lose everything, family, home, and even the will to live, and still find a way forward. From playing music at Abbey Road to living on the streets of Manchester, Robb’s story is a raw reminder of what happens when pain becomes purpose. Through science, faith, and relentless honesty, he rebuilt his life and devoted it to helping others recover from addiction and reclaim their worth.

In this conversation, we talk about:

  • How childhood trauma quietly shapes the way we cope, connect, and self-destruct
  • What it really takes to rebuild a life after addiction and find a new identity
  • Why embracing our perfectly imperfect selves is key to healing and helping others

This episode is a powerful reflection on redemption, resilience, and the small moments that can change everything.

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Guest Bio

Dr. Robb Kelly, PhD, is a sought-after recovery expert who believes in treating the causes of addiction and not the symptoms. Dr. Kelly has appeared on shows such as The Doctors, Eye Opener, Good Morning Texas, and KENS 5 Morning News. A frequent contributor to radio and print interviews, including The Jim Bohannon show, Miracles in Recovery, USA Today, and participated in McLean Hospital’s (Harvard Medical School) study on the stigma associated with mental illness. Dr. Kelly hosted the Sober Celebs show on KLIF radio in Dallas, and currently hosts the Breaking Through Addiction podcast featuring special guests discussing a variety of mental health issues.

Dr. Kelly created Let’s Get Back to 98% Recovery DVDs, used in prisons and recovery treatment centers throughout the US. He has lectured on addiction and trauma at high-profile universities, national conferences, treatment facilities, public schools, churches, business organizations, and hospitals. Dr Kelly is currently the CEO of the Robb Kelly Recovery Group, an addiction and mental illness recovery coaching company he founded based on extensive research and behavioural studies he conducted over the past 20 years. Dr. Kelly shares his personal highs and lows as he struggled and overcame crippling alcoholism in the November 2019 release of the book “Daddy, Daddy Please Stop Drinking”.

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Dec 16, 2025 5:0 AM
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Learning to Be Softer With Yourself | Bonus

This episode is part of The Things We Carry, a solo series shaped by the themes that stay with me after the conversations on The Life Shift.

Today I am talking about how hard we can be on ourselves and what it means to slowly learn gentleness. So many of us move through life with old shame, perfectionism, or fear tucked inside. We push ourselves to be better, to get everything right, or to carry more than we were ever meant to hold.

In this reflection, I talk about the critical voice we learn as kids, the pressure to be perfect, and the way self-compassion feels like a muscle we have to practice again and again. Healing is not a straight line. Some days you feel softer. Some days you slip back into old patterns. The important part is noticing the shift and remembering that you deserve the same care you give to everyone else.

If you have been carrying shame, harshness, or impossible expectations, I hope this episode helps you take one gentler breath. You do not have to earn kindness. You are allowed to give it to yourself, right here, exactly as you are.

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Dec 14, 2025 1:0 PM
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He Stepped Out of the Spotlight to Hear Himself Again

What happens when the spotlight fades and you’re left with silence?

Seth Stewart spent years performing on the world’s biggest stages — from Hamilton and In the Heights to touring with Madonna. But at the height of success, something inside him started calling for more. That quiet pull led him away from bright lights and applause, and into the wilderness where he began listening to his own spirit for the first time.

In this conversation, Seth opens up about what it takes to walk away from a dream, why stillness can be louder than any stage, and how rediscovering our connection to nature can help us find our way back to ourselves.

You’ll hear about:

  • How leaving Broadway became Seth’s most honest act of creation
  • What living off-grid taught him about trust, unity, and peace
  • Why listening to your inner voice might be the bravest thing you ever do

If you’ve ever felt called to change direction, this episode is a reminder that there’s life beyond what others expect — and that following your vision is a form of truth.

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Guest Bio

From the stages of Broadway to the depths of the jungle, Seth Stewart is a bridge between worlds. As a performer and creator, he’s played major roles in the Tony Award-winning productions of In the Heights and Hamilton, and performed with artists like Madonna, Jay-Z, and Jennifer Lopez.

After leaving the entertainment industry, Seth followed a deep spiritual calling that led him into the forest — a journey that reshaped his entire sense of purpose. He spent years immersed in nature, ceremony, and self-inquiry, learning from shamans and ancient wisdom keepers.

Today, Seth guides others toward clarity, embodiment, and unity through True Kings Academy, a transformative space for men’s wellness and leadership. He also mentors young performers through Performer’s Edge, combining artistry and mindfulness. His upcoming memoir, Follow Your Vision. Live Your Truth., released August 8, 2025. https://www.iamsethstewart.com/

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Dec 9, 2025 5:8 AM
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Learning to Live With Grief | Bonus

This episode is part of The Things We Carry, a solo series built around the themes that stay with me after the conversations on The Life Shift.

Today, I am talking about grief and the way it takes shape inside a life. Grief is not something you finish. It is something living and moving, something that changes as you change. Losing my mom, my grandmother, and Mikey shaped the way I understand grief long before I ever sat with a guest and heard their story.

In this reflection, I talk about how grief shifts from sharp to distant, how it can still surprise you years later, and how it never follows a straight line. Grief is not linear or predictable. It moves like waves, shadows, seasons. Sometimes it takes up the whole room. Sometimes it sits quietly in the corner. It is still a part of you either way.

If you are carrying a loss, I hope this episode gives you a softer place to land. You do not need to rush your way through it or pretend you are fine. Grief is not a problem to fix. It is part of who you are and part of being human. You are allowed to feel it, honor it, and keep moving with one small step at a time.

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Dec 7, 2025 1:0 PM
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The Life Shift
Learning to Tell the Story You Thought You Had to Hide

Sometimes grief arrives before we are old enough to understand it. It lands in the middle of everything familiar and quietly rewrites the map of who we become. Years can pass before we realize how much of ourselves is still standing in that same frozen place.

In this conversation, Kristina Amelong shares what it means to finally face what she could not name as a teenager. After losing her younger brother in a sudden accident, she spent decades searching for ways to numb the ache. What began as survival slowly became a lifelong practice of returning to herself — through healing, sobriety, and the simple act of telling the truth.

This is a story about finding connection after silence. About discovering that grief can open doors as easily as it closes them. And about the power of one question to bring the past back into the light.

What You’ll Hear:

  • The day everything changed and the silence that followed
  • How addiction became both a shield and a signal for help
  • The stranger’s question that opened the path to healing
  • What it means to reconnect with people frozen in the same grief
  • The sacredness of tears and the wisdom they hold
  • Finding peace through storytelling and self-acceptance

 

Guest Bio

Kristina Amelong is the author of Ten Days to Optimal Health: A Guide to Nutritional Therapy and Colon Cleansing and the newly released memoir What My Brother Knew (She Writes Press, May 27). She is the founder and owner of Optimal Health Network, a holistic health business, and serves as a senior board member for the Center for World Philosophy and Religion, a nonprofit dedicated to reweaving the human story through spirituality and global healing. Kristina has a passion for photography, gardening, and pickleball, and she lives in Madison, Wisconsin, with her three dogs and a brood of chickens.


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00:57:25
Dec 2, 2025 4:5 AM
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When Burnout Starts to Break You Open | Bonus

This episode is part of The Things We Carry, a short solo series shaped by the themes that stay with me after the conversations on The Life Shift.

Today I am talking about burnout and the deeper exhaustion that grows slowly over time. The kind that shows up when you have spent years pushing through life, trying to be enough, and holding more than you were ever meant to carry alone.

In this reflection, I explore what burnout really feels like, why so many of us miss the early signs, and how your body eventually tells the truth, no matter how hard you try to keep going. Burnout is not a personal failure. It is a signal. A quiet invitation to look closely at your life, your pace, and the patterns you have been living inside without even noticing.

If you are overwhelmed, drained, or moving through a season where rest feels impossible, this episode offers a softer place to land. You do not need to have it all figured out. You only need to notice what is shifting inside you and take one small step toward something gentler.

That can be enough for today.

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Nov 30, 2025 1:0 PM
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The Doctor Said, β€œSpank Him.” Piper Said No.

Have you ever reached a point where the answers you’re given simply stop feeling right? Where you realize that trusting your own instincts might be the only way forward. For Piper, that moment came in a doctor’s office when she was told her son just needed a spanking. Something inside her knew that wasn’t true.

What followed was a full transformation born from love and determination. She went back to school, relearned what she thought she knew about health, and built a life that would help not only her son but hundreds of other families too. Along the way, she found her own healing in the process.

This conversation is about listening to that quiet voice inside you. It’s about the courage to question what you’ve been told and the hope that grows when you refuse to give up. Take your time with this one. It is gentle and full of heart.

What You’ll Hear

  • A mother’s turning point after harmful medical advice
  • How childhood trauma shaped a life built on self-reliance
  • Discovering purpose in the middle of fear and uncertainty
  • The surprising ways healing her son led to her own transformation
  • The strength found in trusting intuition over authority
  • How sharing one story can light the way for others

Guest Bio

Dr. Piper Gibson founded the Tic Disorder Institute: Regenerating Health and Elite Gene Labs, where she empowers families and healthcare professionals to address tic disorders and optimize wellness. She is a Doctor of Functional Medicine, Advanced Holistic Nutrition, and a Board-Certified Doctor of Natural Medicine. She is also the author of Tic Talk: Common Misconceptions, Natural Approaches, and Real Conversations about Tic Disorders.

Connect with Piper:

Website: https://regenerating.health/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/regeneratinghealth/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RegeneratingHealth

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Nov 25, 2025 4:30 AM
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Rebuilding a Life You Never Asked to Start Over

Sometimes we don’t get to choose when life asks us to begin again. One moment you’re following a dream, and the next you’re rebuilding from the pieces of what used to be. It’s a strange kind of starting over – the kind you never asked for but somehow learn to live inside.

Ava Jones knows that space well. At seventeen, she survived a devastating car accident that took her father’s life and changed everything she knew about herself. Two years later, she was diagnosed with stage four cancer. Through it all, she’s learning what it means to keep moving, to ask for help, and to find gratitude even in the hardest chapters.

This conversation isn’t about silver linings. It’s about choosing to live when the story doesn’t go the way you planned. Ava’s honesty reminds us that starting over doesn’t mean you’ve failed – it means you’re still here.

What You’ll Hear

  • The day Ava’s life changed forever
  • Learning to walk, talk, and feel again after trauma
  • Grieving her father while navigating recovery
  • Letting go of the basketball dream that once defined her
  • Facing cancer with honesty and faith in her support system
  • Rediscovering joy in small, ordinary moments

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Guest Bio

Ava Jones is a 20-year-old former college basketball player from Kansas who survived a catastrophic car accident in 2022 that claimed her father’s life and left her and her mother critically injured. After years of recovery, including relearning to walk and speak, Ava faced a stage four Hodgkin lymphoma diagnosis in 2025. She recently completed 12 rounds of chemotherapy and is in remission. Today, she shares her story to give others hope and remind them that it’s okay to ask for help.

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Nov 25, 2025 4:25 AM
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She Lost Her Brother Tragically. Poetry Helped Her Heal.

Some moments stay with us long after they end. The choice we made. The thing we wish we had said. The image that still lingers when the room goes quiet. Cyra’s story begins with one of those moments, the kind that changes everything and asks who we will become after it.

At sixteen, she lost her brother to suicide and carried the guilt of that day for years. Her healing came slowly, through forgiveness and the power of words. Poetry became a place to lay down her pain and listen to something deeper, something that kept whispering that love was still possible.

What You’ll Hear

  • How grief can hold both love and regret at once
  • The quiet guidance of a voice that spoke when she needed it most
  • Why poetry became her way to understand pain and healing
  • What it means to forgive a younger version of yourself
  • The long, patient work of turning loss into meaning
  • How creativity can become medicine when nothing else fits

Guest Bio

Cyra Sweet Dumitru (www.cyrasweetdumitru.com) is an accomplished poet, instructor of poetry writing, and one of four certified practitioners of poetic medicine in Texas. Her poems have appeared on a wall in San Antonio's City Hall and on city buses, been spoken on national radio and in museums, published in newspapers, and featured in anthologies and literary journals. She has four collections of poetry and a memoirWords Make a Way Through Fire: Healing After My Brother's Suicide, which is told through prose and poetry and was published by She Writes Press and distributed by Simon & Schuster. Cyra leads therapeutic writing circles for people from all walks of life.

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Nov 18, 2025 4:8 AM
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He Lost the Job. He Found His Life.

Have you ever been doing everything right and still felt something was missing? Clay Garrett thought he had built the life he was supposed to have. A stable career, a loving family, all the boxes checked. But when life suddenly stopped, he was invited to see what really mattered.

Clay’s story unfolds in the quiet that followed a layoff just before the pandemic. What began as fear became clarity. In that unexpected pause, he found what a good life feels like when presence becomes the priority. This conversation is about slowing down, choosing intention, and discovering that sometimes the hardest endings lead us home to ourselves.

What You’ll Hear:

  • The moment a layoff became an unexpected gift
  • How time with family reshaped his understanding of success
  • Learning to be truly present as a husband and father
  • The power of reflection and self-awareness in daily life
  • Building a meaningful life through purpose and simplicity
  • What it means to live by choice instead of habit

Guest Bio:

Clay Garrett is the founder of Campfire Gentleman, a personal development project that helps men build meaningful lives centered on purpose, family, and personal growth. After 25 years in design and advertising, a COVID-era layoff led Clay to reevaluate his definition of success, ultimately inspiring a new path centered on presence, purpose, and simplicity. Through writing, resources, and honest conversation, he’s creating a space for husbands and fathers who want to slow down and live with intention.

Connect with Clay and his work: https://campfiregentleman.beehiiv.com/

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Nov 18, 2025 3:45 AM
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The Life Shift
Leaving the Plan to Become the Person

Have you ever realized you were living the life someone else imagined for you?
Andrew Mitch did everything right on paper. He followed the rules, earned the degrees, and chased approval until the weight of it all became too heavy to carry. When he finally walked away from the life others expected, he found the beginning of his own.

What unfolded next was unexpected. A stranger at a restaurant table looked at him through tears and said, “Whatever you have, the world needs to hear it now.” That moment shifted everything. It was the reminder that his voice mattered, and that he no longer needed permission to use it.

This is a story about leaving certainty for something more alive. About learning to be seen, to create honestly, and to trust that your real self is enough.
Take your time with this one. It is tender and real.

What You’ll Hear

  • The quiet pressure of chasing someone else’s version of success

  • How leaving a PhD program became an act of self-trust

  • The beauty of being seen by a stranger who changed everything

  • The tension between faith, identity, and authenticity

  • Learning to stop asking for permission to create

  • What it means to live unapologetically yourself

Guest Bio

From small-town Ohio to Nashville, Andrew Mitch is making waves in country-pop with raw emotion, personal truth, and storytelling. His breakout single “all in my head” went viral, crowdfunded his debut album, and earned features from CMA, CMT, GLAAD, and more. With millions of views, 30K+ followers, and praise from artists like Carly Pearce and Ingrid Andress, Andrew has since released songs like "back home boy" (featured on Nashville's very own WSMV4) and "unapologetic." He continues to prove there’s power in being unapologetically yourself.

Connect with Andrew: https://www.andrewmitchmusic.com/

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Nov 11, 2025 4:50 AM
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When Her Body Spoke, She Finally Heard

Have you ever built a life that looked good from the outside but left you exhausted on the inside? Brooks Bell knows that feeling. At 38, she was the driven CEO who could carry it all until her body told her something wasn’t right. What followed was not only a colon cancer diagnosis but a reckoning with how she had been living.

This story isn’t just about surviving illness. It is about letting go of perfection, rediscovering joy, and realizing that fun is a form of healing, too. Brooks learned to trade achievement for presence and to see connection as the real measure of success.

Take your time with this one. It is tender and full of light.

What You’ll Hear

  • How ignoring small signs can change everything

  • The moment Brooks finally let herself feel

  • Why fun and play became her new measure of joy

  • What happens when identity is no longer tied to success

  • The power of turning pain into purpose through connection

Guest Bio

Brooks Bell is a cancer survivor, entrepreneur, and co-founder of World Class Clothing, a nonprofit brand raising awareness about colonoscopies and funding screenings for underinsured communities. After being diagnosed with colon cancer at 38, Brooks turned her experience into a mission to normalize conversations about prevention while also creating more space for fun, connection, and joy.

Connect with Brooks

Website: www.worldclassclothing.com

Instagram: @worldclass_clothing

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Nov 11, 2025 4:45 AM
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Grief Changed Him. Joy Came Later.

Sometimes the story we never wanted becomes the one that shapes who we are. When the people we love disappear too soon, we begin to understand how fragile and precious it all is.

Ricardo was only ten when his mother dropped him and his brother at the bowling alley and promised she would be right back. She never came back. That moment changed the way he saw the world. Through grief, silence, and eventually cancer, he learned that joy is not something that just arrives. It is something we build through intention, practice, and the quiet decision to keep living.

This conversation holds space for grief that never fully leaves but grows lighter with care. It is about learning to carry what is heavy without losing sight of what is still beautiful.
Take your time with this one. It is tender and real.

What You’ll Hear:

  • The moment that changed everything for a ten-year-old boy

  • How two brothers carried the same loss in completely different ways

  • The lessons Ricardo learned about speaking grief instead of burying it

  • What cancer taught him about time, fear, and perspective

  • The daily practice of building joy after loss

  • How choosing presence can soften even the hardest memories

Guest Bio

Ricardo Viso is a global entrepreneur, speaker, podcaster, and former executive who’s turned life’s toughest moments into powerful lessons on joy and resilience—and he’s got the scars (and stories) to prove it. Born in Denver, raised in Mexico City, and now calling Austin home, he’s been through it all—losing his mother to suicide at 10, overcoming a stint of incarceration, and even battling cancer. But instead of letting life break him, he used these experiences to build something incredible.

Now, he’s on a mission to help others break free from autopilot, shift their mindset, and create real joy in their lives and daily activities—without waiting for a life-altering wake-up call. As the founder of Joyful Living Lounge, Viso created a space where people can unwind, laugh, and soak up all the good vibes. No pressure, no perfection—just real people sharing stories, tips, and moments of joy.

As developer of the RIC Method, Viso has created a game-changing approach that helps individuals and teams rediscover passion and purpose in their work and lives. Imagine a workplace where people actually love what they do—engaged, thriving, and delivering incredible results. That’s the magic Viso brings.

His journey from tragedy to joy has been featured in International Business Times, proving that long-term fulfillment isn’t just possible—it’s something you can create, starting now. For those ready to unlock more joy, Viso offers practical strategies and a fresh perspective, inviting audiences to discover the roadmap to a more fulfilling life—inside and outside of the workplace. Read more here.

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Nov 4, 2025 4:45 AM
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Breaking the Cycle No One Talks About

Have you ever looked back on your childhood and realized how much you learned to keep inside? How the silence around you became something you carried, long after you left the place that taught it to you.

Shigeko Ito grew up in a home that looked perfect from the outside but felt empty inside. Years later, after a moment of betrayal that changed everything, she began the long work of finding her way back to herself. Her story moves from isolation to understanding, from blame to compassion, and from surviving to healing.

This conversation is about what it means to stop a generational pattern of silence and choose honesty instead. It is about finding language for pain that never had words. Take your time with this one. It is tender and real.

What You’ll Hear:

  • How emotional neglect can shape a child’s sense of safety

  • A moment of awakening that changed everything

  • The long journey toward naming trauma and reclaiming self compassion

  • The quiet power of writing as a tool for healing

  • What it means to end generational silence

  • Finding freedom through vulnerability and truth

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Guest Bio

Shigeko Ito is an educator, mental health advocate, and debut author of the memoir The Pond Beyond the Forest: Reflections on Childhood Trauma and Motherhood (She Writes Press). She grew up in Japan and immigrated to the United States in her twenties to pursue higher education, earning a PhD in Education from Stanford University. Drawing on her cross cultural experiences and academic expertise, she explores themes of trauma, resilience, and healing, with a particular focus on childhood emotional neglect. Shigeko lives in Seattle with her husband of thirty years. Learn more at shigekoito.com

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Nov 4, 2025 4:9 AM
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The Life Shift
She Grew Up Interpreting the World for Everyone Else

If you grew up carrying things no one else could see, you may feel yourself in this story. Maria Gallucci was a bridge from the very beginning. As a child of deaf adults, she learned early how to interpret not just words, but emotion, context, and belonging. She understood how small acts of inclusion can change the way someone feels in a room. And later, she found herself interpreting the hardest words a person can hear when she had to tell her mom she was dying.

In this conversation, Maria reflects on growing up between worlds, the weight and beauty of being the one who explains life to others, and how grief continues to shape us long after the moment of loss. She also shares how parenting through grief deepened her sense of compassion and clarified her commitment to building a more inclusive world. This is a story about love, responsibility, and learning how to stay soft while carrying so much.

Take your time with this one. It is tender and real.

What you’ll hear in this episode

  • What it feels like to grow up as the bridge in your family

  • The moment Maria had to interpret her mother’s terminal diagnosis

  • How grief reshapes identity and relationships

  • Parenting while grieving

  • Why small acts of inclusion matter

  • A reminder that your story matters too

Guest Bio

Maria Gallucci is a multi-award-winning real estate agent and proud CODA (Child of Deaf Adults). Growing up as one of six hearing children raised by Deaf parents, she learned ASL before English and helped her parents buy a home at just 12 years old. This experience shaped her passion for inclusive communication and helping those who are often overlooked.

For over 30 years, Maria has supported homebuyers from all walks of life, with special focus on the Deaf, Hard of Hearing, and LGBTQ+ communities. She’s the founder of Uptown Realty Group, Gallucci Homes, ASL @ Compass Affinity Group, and ASL Realty, a national platform connecting Deaf & Hard of Hearing clients with signing agents. She ranks in the top 1% of agents in Colorado and top 1.5% nationwide.

Maria also serves on boards for Rocky Mountain Deaf School, DOVE, and Colorado Association of the Deaf. Her motto, "just try," reflects her belief that meaningful connection starts with one small step. Her debut book, Raised in Silence, is both a love letter to the Deaf & Hard of Hearing community and a guide for bridging communication gaps.

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00:55:48
Oct 28, 2025 4:0 AM
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The Life Shift
Learning to Forgive the Person You Used to Be

What happens when one choice alters the course of your life?

At 20 years old, Cheryl Wilder made a decision that led to a devastating accident and decades of shame, guilt, and self-questioning. For years, she carried the weight of what she now calls moral injury, unsure if she even deserved healing.

In this candid conversation, Cheryl opens up about the accident, the long and layered path toward forgiveness, and how poetry and storytelling became her lifelines.

  • How one night reshaped the way she saw herself and the world
  • Why shame felt easier to carry than forgiveness
  • The moments and practices that helped her reclaim her worth

This episode is about accountability, healing, and the courage it takes to finally believe you are worth good things.

Guest Bio

Cheryl Wilder is an author, coach, and motivational speaker. She helps clients connect their personal lives with their skills and knowledge to create a professional presence aligned with their values. A natural mediator and believer in the journey as a destination, Cheryl has an instinct to understand people, anticipate their needs, and listen to unvoiced questions. She’s passionate about helping clients see purpose and connections in everyday occurrences.

An advocate for the arts, Cheryl was the Burlington Writers Club president (2022–24) and is a co-chair of their Alamance County, NC Student Writing Contest. She’s co-leader of the For Alamance Arts & Culture Team, teaches writing workshops, and serves as a member-at-large for the North Carolina Poetry Society. As a poet, Cheryl could talk about line breaks all day. Other topics of proficiency are poetry and architecture, shame and forgiveness, the arts and community, and reinventing the self. Learn more at bornwilder.com.

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00:52:52
Oct 28, 2025 3:30 AM
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The Life Shift
Leaving the Life You Thought You Were Supposed to Live

Have you ever felt the quiet pull to change everything you thought you were building?

For Marty Ross-Dolen, that moment came on September 11, 2001. She had devoted her entire life to psychiatry, but as she watched the towers fall with her children nearby, something in her said it was time to let go. That decision set her on a new course — one that led to motherhood, teaching, and eventually a memoir that uncovered the silence of multi-generational grief.

In this conversation, Marty shares what it means to step away from a lifelong identity and find a new one through writing and reflection.

  • Why listening to the voice inside matters more than the expectations you were raised to follow
  • How unspoken grief can ripple through generations and quietly shape a family’s story
  • What happens when you allow yourself to change your mind, even after decades of commitment

Marty’s journey is both personal and universal, a reminder that it’s never too late to begin again.

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Guest Bio

Marty Ross-Dolen is a graduate of Wellesley College and Albert Einstein College of Medicine and is a retired child and adolescent psychiatrist. She holds an MFA in Writing from Vermont College of Fine Arts. Her memoir, Always There, Always Gone: A Daughter’s Search for Truth, was released with She Writes Press in May 2025. She teaches writing and lives in Columbus, Ohio. Learn more at www.martyrossdolen.com.


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00:57:07
Oct 21, 2025 4:45 AM
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The Life Shift
How Isabelle Daikeler Found Strength in Surrender and Transformed Her Life

What happens when life forces you to stop fighting and finally let go?

For years, Isabelle Daikeler lived in pain and fear, holding tightly to identities that no longer fit. It all came to a breaking point on the floor of a bedroom in Hawaii, when surrender became her only option. What unfolded was not instant healing, but the start of a transformation that continues to this day.

In this episode of The Life Shift Podcast, Isabelle shares:

  • How years of pain, illness, and lost identity led her to a wall she could not push past
  • The night she surrendered in prayer, her body released decades of fear and trauma
  • Why befriending the unknown has allowed her to step into deeper authenticity and self-worth

This is a story of patience, surrender, and learning that strength often shows up in ways we don’t expect.

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Guest Bio:

Isabelle Daikeler is a visionary holistic wellness expert committed to guiding you toward inner alignment and spiritual healing. In her one-on-one sessions, she creates a sacred space where clients can connect with higher wisdom and release what no longer serves them. Her work includes the Harmonic Egg, a sound-and-light modality designed to restore balance and deep calm, along with intuitive channeling and energy healing. Inspired by her own journey through pain and awakening, Isabelle empowers others to access their inner wisdom and embrace authentic living. Learn more at AuthenticityStressless.com.

00:56:24
Oct 21, 2025 4:0 AM
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The Life Shift
Why Heidi Blackie Chose to Believe in Her Body’s Ability to Heal

What happens when you realize you don’t actually believe you can heal?

Heidi Blackie spent a decade battling chronic illness, grief, and perfectionism until one raw moment in her kitchen changed everything. She asked herself a simple but life-altering question: What am I believing about my ability to heal?

In this conversation, Heidi shares how that vow to believe in herself shifted her relationship with her body, her perfectionism, and her sense of self. Her story will resonate with anyone who has felt trapped by patterns, weighed down by loss, or unsure how to move forward.

You’ll hear about:

  • The moment Heidi realized disbelief was keeping her stuck in illness
  • How grief, trauma, and perfectionism built the conditions for collapse
  • The practices and reframes that helped her connect to her “unshakable me”

Healing isn’t quick or easy, but it starts with belief.


Guest Bio:

Heidi Blackie is a speaker, consultant, and creator of UnshakableMe®, a science-meets-soul program helping women dismantle limiting beliefs and reclaim their inner power. After chronic illness brought her to rock bottom, she made a radical choice to believe in her body’s ability to heal — a turning point that reshaped her life from the inside out.

With 25 years as an Occupational Therapist and hard-won lived experience, she now guides others to meet adversity with clarity, connection, and self-trust. Her story is an invitation to anyone facing personal challenges, offering grounded hope, actionable tools, and a powerful reminder that we are far more capable than we think.


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00:58:47
Oct 14, 2025 4:10 AM
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The Life Shift
Chris Jordan on Living a Life That Was Never Dull

What does it mean to live a life that is never dull?

For Chris Jordan, the answer has been unfolding since he was twelve years old, standing in front of his grandfather’s headstone. Etched into the stone were six words his grandmother chose: It was never dull. What started as a simple phrase became a mantra that shaped every risk, every leap, and every choice Chris has made since.

  • How a childhood visit to a cemetery planted a lifelong guidepost
  • Why dropping out of college and leaving comfort behind felt more true than staying safe
  • The ways creativity, storytelling, and encouragement became his life’s real work

Chris shows us how even small words can carry us through fear and uncertainty, helping us choose the path that feels alive. His story is a reminder that our lives don’t have to be perfect to be meaningful.

Listen now and consider what phrase you’d want etched on your own life.

Guest Bio:

Chris Jordan is a personal brand strategist who helps entrepreneurs establish their authority and grow their business through intentional storytelling and content. For more than five years, he worked alongside top thought leaders including Lewis Howes, Daymond John, and Dr. Benjamin Hardy on their podcast and content strategies. Today, Chris runs his own consulting business, supporting entrepreneurs who want to share their stories, connect authentically, and build lasting impact. https://www.linkedin.com/in/imchrisjordan/

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00:56:50
Oct 14, 2025 4:0 AM
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The Life Shift
How Dan Boettcher Rebuilt His Life After a Mental Health Crisis

What happens when the life you built suddenly unravels?

Dan Boettcher had the degrees, the career path, and the promise of a future in diplomacy. On paper, it looked perfect. But inside, he was falling apart – and one surreal moment in an airport lounge sent his world in an entirely different direction.

In this conversation, Dan shares what it means to start over when the future you planned is no longer possible. His story is not just about survival but about transformation, and how meaning can show up in unexpected places.

  • How a mental health crisis forced him to step away from the identity he built
  • The moment he found meaning in unexpected grace and healing
  • Why jewelry, storytelling, and transformation became his new way forward

This is a conversation about breaking open, rediscovering purpose, and finding beauty in places you never thought to look.

Guest Bio

Daniel Boettcher is the founder of The Intrepid Wendell and a Graduate Gemologist (GIA) with academic degrees from Yale, Georgetown, and American Universities. He began his career in law while preparing for a future in diplomacy, but a serious mental health crisis ultimately altered that path. Unable to pursue government work due to clearance restrictions, Daniel set out on a journey to rediscover meaning and passion – leading him back to a childhood love of gems and minerals. Today, he travels the globe sourcing rare gemstones and precious metals to craft custom jewelry that reflects the personal stories of his clients. A digital nomad, seasoned world traveler, and polyglot, he has visited over 100 countries and finds inspiration in every culture he encounters.

Sure On This Shining Night

Sure on this shining night

Of star made shadows round,

Kindness must watch for me

This side the ground.

The late year lies down the north.

All is healed, all is health.

High summer holds the earth.

Hearts all whole.

Sure on this shining night

I weep for wonder wand'ring faralone

Of shadows on the stars.

The poem comes from a book by James Agee entitled "Permit Me Voyage," published in  1934 by Yale University Press

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00:58:59
Oct 7, 2025 4:0 AM
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