Men's Divorce Recovery

Men's Divorce Recovery

Men's Divorce Recovery exists to empower divorced men through support, knowledge, and encouragement to survive and thrive beyond divorce and become resilient, strong, and wise. New episodes will be dropped every other week. We look forward to walking with you on this Journey to Recovery. Find us on Facebook and Instagram @officialmensdivorcerecovery or visit us at www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

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Men's Divorce Recovery
Blending Families with Faith Part Two

PART TWO 

In this episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, Dale and Chris sit down with Ron Deal, director of FamilyLife Blended®, to talk about the challenges and blessings of life after divorce. Together they unpack the realities of step-parenting, the pitfalls that can lead to re-divorce, and the biblical principles that offer hope for men navigating blended families. With wisdom drawn from Scripture and years of ministry experience, Ron shares practical tools and encouragement for fathers, stepfathers, and husbands who want to lead with faith, patience, and grace.

Inspiration Verse: “If anyone is in Christ, the new creation has come: The old has gone, the new is here!” — 2 Corinthians 5:17

Resources: https://www.rondeal.org/

 

00:43:55
Sep 24, 2025 1:53 PM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Making Marriage Work, Divorce in First Responders

In this episode, Dale and Chris sit down with Tim Rutledge, Director of LEAPS Training and a retired narcotics agent, to explore the unique challenges first responders face in marriage—and the difficult road many walk through divorce. Tim shares candid insights from decades of service, stories from the field, and practical tools to strengthen relationships under pressure. Together, they discuss how to build trust, communicate through stress, and find resilience and hope, whether you’re fighting for your marriage or navigating the pain of separation.

Bible Verse Inspiration: "Be on your guard; stand firm in the faith; be courageous; be strong. Do everything in love."  -1 Corinthians 16:13–14

Resources: https://www.leapstraining.com/

 

00:44:51
Aug 27, 2025 6:11 PM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
What Does a Win Look Like?

In this episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, Dale Brown explores the question, "What does a win really look like after divorce?" Instead of chasing shallow victories, Dale unpacks five meaningful types of wins: gaining clarity, having passion, finding solidarity with others, making good decisions, and living with integrity. This episode offers a grounded perspective on success, growth, and healing during life’s most challenging transitions.

Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

Bible Verse Inspiration: Micah 6:8 (NIV): "He has shown you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God."

00:37:50
Jul 30, 2025 5:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
When It All Falls Apart: Facing the Worst Day of Your Life

We all face moments in life that bring us to our knees—days when it feels like everything we've built has come crashing down. In this solo episode, Chris gets real about what to do when you're living through the worst day of your life. Whether you're dealing with the shock of divorce, the loss of a relationship, or the weight of emotional pain, this episode offers both Biblical wisdom and practical tools to help you breathe, pause, and begin to heal.

You'll learn how to name your pain, avoid destructive reactions, lean into community, and trust that your story isn't over—even when it feels like it is. Drawing from Scripture, real-life reflection, and grounded encouragement, this episode is a guide to surviving your lowest moment and slowly stepping into something new.

You’re not alone. God sees you. And there’s still hope.

Bible Inspiration: 2 Corinthians 4:8–9 “We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed; perplexed, but not in despair; persecuted, but not abandoned; struck down, but not destroyed.”

Resource: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org

00:22:46
Jul 16, 2025 7:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
When You Hurt
On today's episode Dale discusses important parts of his book, The Daily Survival Guide for Divorced Men. Specifically Dale discusses what happens when you hurt during the divorce process. He looks at what happens to you mentally and physically when we are hurting, what we can expect during this phase of recovery, and what we can do about it to not sink too far. 

Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org 
00:47:05
Jun 18, 2025 7:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Faith Under Fire Part Two
INTERVIEW PART TWO

In this powerful episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, we sit down with Bree Sullivan-Howell, author of Crush Your Divorce and Keep Your Faith, to explore how Christian men can navigate the emotional, spiritual, and legal challenges of divorce without losing their faith in Christ. Bree shares personal insights, practical advice, and biblical encouragement for staying grounded, acting with integrity, and building spiritual resilience in the face of one of life’s hardest seasons. Whether you’re in the midst of a divorce or walking the long road of recovery, this conversation offers hope, truth, and the reminder that God is still at work in your story.


Bible Passage Inspiration: Isaiah 43:2 "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."


Resources: https://www.sullivan-firm.com
00:23:31
Jun 4, 2025 7:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Faith Under Fire Part One
In this powerful episode of Men’s Divorce Recovery, we sit down with Bree Sullivan-Howell, author of Crush Your Divorce and Keep Your Faith, to explore how Christian men can navigate the emotional, spiritual, and legal challenges of divorce without losing their faith in Christ. Bree shares personal insights, practical advice, and biblical encouragement for staying grounded, acting with integrity, and building spiritual resilience in the face of one of life’s hardest seasons. Whether you’re in the midst of a divorce or walking the long road of recovery, this conversation offers hope, truth, and the reminder that God is still at work in your story.

Bible Passage Inspiration: Isaiah 43:2 "When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze."


Resources: https://www.sullivan-firm.com
00:31:03
May 21, 2025 7:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
What We Can Learn About Love from the Life of Pope Francis
In this episode we explore surprising lessons on love, healing, and personal growth through the life and example of Pope Francis. From his focus on compassion and forgiveness to his deep humility and expansive view of love, we unpack how his approach can help men recovering from divorce rediscover their identity, rebuild relationships, and redefine what love means in this new chapter of our lives.

Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org 
00:24:13
Apr 23, 2025 7:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Scars that Speak: What Healing Teaches Us
Episode Title: Scars that Speak: What Healing Teaches Us

Scripture Focus: John 20:27

In this heartfelt episode, we explore the power and purpose of emotional scars—especially those left behind after divorce. Drawing from John 20:27, we reflect on how even Jesus chose to reveal His scars as a testimony of love, healing, and identity. You'll discover why your own scars are not signs of failure, but sacred reminders of survival and God's presence in your pain. Whether you're deep in the healing process or just beginning, this episode offers hope, perspective, and encouragement to see your scars as part of your redemptive story.
00:23:26
Apr 9, 2025 7:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
A Divorced Dad Story Part Two
PART TWO OF INTERVIEW

On today’s special episode we welcome an actor, a producer, and a director from Hollywood to discuss their upcoming movie “Guys Night,” an inspirational story of overcoming adversity and growing as a divorced and single dad. The personal stories in this episode will inspire you and fill you with hope for your future. A special thanks to Niko Vitacco, Dave Eichhorn, and Andrew Baird for being on today’s podcast! 

Bible Passage Inspiration: Proverbs 4:1-2 “Hear, O Children, a father’s instruction, be attentive, that you may gain understanding. Yes, excellent advice I give you; my teaching do not forsake.” 


Resources: https://givebutter.com/guysnight
00:35:29
Mar 26, 2025 10:35 PM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
A Divorced Dad Story Part One
On today’s special episode we welcome an actor, a producer, and a director from Hollywood to discuss their upcoming movie “Guys Night,” an inspirational story of overcoming adversity and growing as a divorced single dad. The personal stories in this episode will inspire you and fill you with hope for your future. A special thanks to Niko Vitacco, Dave Eichhorn, and Andrew Baird for being on today’s podcast! 


Bible Passage Inspiration: Proverbs 4:1-2 “Hear, O Children, a father’s instruction, be attentive, that you may gain understanding. Yes, excellent advice I give you; my teaching do not forsake.” 


Resources: https://givebutter.com/guysnight

00:35:33
Mar 12, 2025 7:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
The Narrow Path
On the episode Chris cover a reading from the Sermon on the Plain and how it relates to the divorce process. He discusses the narrow path of doing the right thing, even in the face of difficult times and intense emotions. 

Bible Passage Inspiration: Luke 6:27-38
"Jesus said to his disciples:“To you who hear I say,love your enemies, do good to those who hate you,bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you.To the person who strikes you on one cheek,offer the other one as well,and from the person who takes your cloak,do not withhold even your tunic.Give to everyone who asks of you,and from the one who takes what is yours do not demand it back.Do to others as you would have them do to you.For if you love those who love you,what credit is that to you?Even sinners love those who love them.And if you do good to those who do good to you,what credit is that to you?Even sinners do the same.If you lend money to those from whom you expect repayment,what credit is that to you?Even sinners lend to sinners,and get back the same amount.But rather, love your enemies and do good to them,and lend expecting nothing back;then your reward will be greatand you will be children of the Most High,for he himself is kind to the ungrateful and the wicked.Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.
“Stop judging and you will not be judged.Stop condemning and you will not be condemned.Forgive and you will be forgiven.Give, and gifts will be given to you;a good measure, packed together, shaken down, and overflowing,will be poured into your lap.For the measure with which you measurewill in return be measured out to you.”


Resources:
www.MensDivorceRecovery.org
00:19:45
Feb 26, 2025 10:56 PM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Bring Me a Higher Love
On today’s podcast we hit fast forward to take a look at what could potentially be in store for you in a second marriage - if God wills that for your life. You may not find yourself ready to listen to this episode, depending on where you are in your divorce process, but we wanted to cover this topic to bring you hope in God’s mercy and resorting power. On this special episode Dale and Chris are joined by their current wives, Kelly and Megan. 


Bible Passage Inspiration: 1 Peter 4:8 “Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.”


Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org 
01:12:15
Feb 12, 2025 8:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
When You Know Divorce is Coming
On today's episode Dale talks about what to do when you know divorce is coming. At time we as men can be caught off guard by divorce, but most of the time we have a sense that things are heading in that direction. In this episode Dale discusses ideas and tips on how to better handle your kids, your job, your finances, and sleep when divorce first takes place.

Rescources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org 
00:28:21
Jan 29, 2025 8:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Sexpectations Part Two
PART TWO OF INTERVIEW

They often say that there are three primary reasons why divorce takes place, with sexual issues being near the top of the list. But if sex factored into the dissolution of our marriage, what can we do to heal and repair our sexual brokenness to be restored in our relationship with God and also prepared for future romantic relationships? On today’s episode Dr. Carol Peters-Tanksley, author of the book "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships” joins the show to discuss these issues and more. 

Bible Passage Inspiration: Song of Songs 

Resources: drcarolministries.com 
00:32:41
Jan 15, 2025 8:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Sexpectations Part One
They often say that there are three primary reasons why divorce takes place, with sexual issues being near the top of the list. But if sex factored into the dissolution of our marriage, what can we do to heal and repair our sexual brokenness to be restored in our relationship with God and also prepared for future romantic relationships? On today’s episode Dr. Carol Peters-Tanksley, author of the book "Sexpectations: Reframing Your Good and Not-So-Good Stories About God, Love, and Relationships” joins the show to discuss these issues and more. 

Bible Passage Inspiration: Song of Songs 


Resources: drcarolministries.com 
00:33:48
Jan 2, 2025 7:28 PM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Devotionals During Divorce Part Two
Part Two of Interview

Divorce disrupts our daily routines and upends what our daily life looks like. During divorce we must choose how to spend our time and what activities will contribute to our recovery. Today we welcome Chris Bolinger to the podcast, who is the author of two Christian devotionals for men to help us understand the importance of daily devotionals during divorce and other topics that will help us recover in the proper way. 

Bible Passage Inspiration: James 5:13-15 “Is anyone among you suffering? He should pray. Is anyone among you sick? He should summon the presbyters of the church, and they should pray over him and anoint [him] with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will save the sick person, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed any sins, he will be forgiven.”


Resources: https://chrisbolinger.com/
00:39:50
Dec 18, 2024 4:16 PM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Devotionals During Divorce Part One
Divorce disrupts our daily routines and upends what our daily life looks like. During divorce we must choose how to spend our time and what activities will contribute to our recovery. Today we welcome Chris Bolinger to the podcast, who is the author of two Christian devotionals for men to help us understand the importance of daily devotionals during divorce and other topics that will help us recover in the proper way. 

Bible Passage Inspiration: James 5:13-15 “Is anyone among you suffering? He should pray. Is anyone among you sick? He should summon the presbyters of the church, and they should pray over him and anoint [him] with oil in the name of the Lord, and the prayer of faith will save the sick person, and the Lord will raise him up. If he has committed any sins, he will be forgiven.”


Resources: https://chrisbolinger.com/
00:35:42
Dec 4, 2024 8:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Navigating Divorce - Lessons from the Navy to Rebuild Your Life Part Two
Part Two of Interview

After spending years on submarines and surface ships, Jay Patterson adjusted his heading to help men facing brutal battles, such as divorce, pivoting careers, hitting midlife, and other challenges. Having spent much of his life submerged, working excessive hours, and being crammed into a compact people tank with 130 men for weeks and months on end, there is no option but to get along. Post-divorce life includes uncharted objects and shoals, but you can navigate obstacles and become stronger with the right mindset. On today’s podcast Jay shares how he survived on a 300-foot-long sewer pipe and how resilience, leadership, and continued growth can help rebuild your life.

Bible Passage Inspiration: Romans 8:18 “I consider that the sufferings of this present time are as nothing compared with the glory to be revealed for us.”


Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org   
00:23:02
Nov 20, 2024 8:0 AM
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Men's Divorce Recovery
Navigating Divorce - Lessons from the Navy to Rebuild Your Life Part One
After spending years on submarines and surface ships, Jay Patterson adjusted his heading to help men facing brutal battles, such as divorce, pivoting careers, hitting midlife, and other challenges. Having spent much of his life submerged, working excessive hours, and being crammed into a compact people tank with 130 men for weeks and months on end, there is no option but to get along. Post-divorce life includes uncharted objects and shoals, but you can navigate obstacles and become stronger with the right mindset. On today’s podcast Jay shares how he survived on a 300-foot-long sewer pipe and how resilience, leadership, and continued growth can help rebuild your life.

Bible Passage Inspiration: Romans 8:18 “I consider that the sufferings of this present time are as nothing compared with the glory to be revealed for us.”


Resources: www.MensDivorceRecovery.org   
00:24:07
Nov 6, 2024 8:0 AM
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