Girl Talk

“Brokenness, when surrendered, God can use it. But if you

try to hold on, it will just keep hurting you.” - Carol

Can God really use someone who’s failed—or someone we flat-out disagree with? Carol, Tricia, and Kelly aren’t afraid to dig into the hard and holy tension of moral failure, public ministry, and the grace that makes redemption possible. They open up about personal pain, what restoration can look like, and how brokenness in the hands of Jesus becomes a powerful testimony.

It’s a conversation about discernment, the danger of personality worship, and why it's so important to keep our eyes on Jesus—not just the people who talk about Him.

🙌 3 Takeaways:

1. God Uses Imperfect People: No one is perfect—and that includes pastors, speakers, and us. Our job isn’t to idolize people, but to follow Jesus.

2. Discernment is Essential: Look for sound doctrine, accountability, and fruit. Ask the Holy Spirit and wise counsel to guide you as you choose who to listen to.

3. Your Brokenness Isn’t Wasted: When surrendered to Christ, even the messiest parts of your story can become the most powerful parts of your testimony.

Whether you're wrestling with a public figure's failure or your own, this episode is a grace-filled reminder that God is still working—and He never wastes a surrendered heart.

"God created you exactly how you are, even with a hamster wheel brain. Talk to Him just like that." - Kelly

Prayer can feel intimidating—like you’re supposed to have the right words, the right focus, or the perfect Pinterest-worthy prayer space. But today, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly get real about the struggle, the joy, and the freedom that comes from simply talking to Jesus.

They’ll talk about comparing prayer lives (ouch), what to do when your mind won’t stop racing, how prayer can be as simple as talking in the car, and why there’s no wrong way to start the conversation with God. Whether you’re a prayer warrior or someone who feels like they’re “bad at praying,” this episode is for you.

Come find freedom, grace, and a reminder that Jesus wants you—just as you are.

• Stop comparing your prayer life to someone else’s highlight reel.
  There’s no “perfect” prayer—just start talking to Jesus.

• Prayer isn’t a formula.
  It can be five minutes, a song in the car, or a moment of silence. God just wants time with you.

• Use what you have.
  Whether it’s a prayer walk, a blanket over your head (Ruth Bell Graham style!), or a sticky note reminder, there are simple ways to grow a habit of prayer—even in your busiest seasons.

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Let’s be honest—gratitude isn’t always easy, especially when life feels like it’s falling apart or your Facebook feed makes you want to scream. In this conversation, the girls get real about what it means to have a heart of gratitude in a world full of discontent. From navigating tricky social moments to learning how to process tough emotions with grace, they open up about the messy middle between frustration and faith.

Whether you’re feeling burned out, unseen, or just straight-up annoyed with the world, this episode will remind you that gratitude doesn’t have to be sunshine and rainbows. Sometimes, it’s just taking a deep breath and choosing to trust God anyway.

📌 3 Key Takeaways:

1. Gratitude isn’t about faking it—it’s about finding something authentic to be thankful for, even in the mess.

2. Trust is the foundation of contentment. When you believe God knows what’s best, peace follows.

3. Emotions aren’t “good” or “bad.” They’re real—and learning to sit with them is key to growing spiritually.

Ever feel like your faith life is running on autopilot? Like you're just checking the boxes—praying, reading your Bible, going to church—but not really connecting with God? You’re not alone! Carol, Tricia, and Kelly open up about the seasons when their spiritual lives have felt dry and what helped them break free from the rut.

"We need a deeper relationship with Jesus—not a longer checklist."

The girls share practical ways to refresh your relationship with Jesus—without falling into another set of rigid “how-to” steps. From shifting focus in Bible study to embracing silence and worship, this conversation is packed with real talk and real encouragement.

If you’ve ever wondered how to build a spiritual rhythm that feels alive instead of routine, this episode is for you. 💛

💡 3 Key Takeaways:

1. Faith is a Relationship, Not a Routine – Just like friendships, your time with Jesus shouldn’t look the same every day. Mix it up, listen more, and invite God into all of your moments.

2. It’s Not About Feelings – Spiritual growth isn’t always felt immediately. Just like working out strengthens muscles, consistent time with God will strengthen your spirit—even when it doesn’t feel like it.

3. Silence is Powerful – If your quiet time is packed with prayers, devotionals, and study, but still feels dry, try subtracting instead of adding. Simply sit in God's presence and listen.

Sharing your faith can feel intimidating—whether it’s at work, on the ball field, or even in line at Walmart!

Carol, Tricia, and Kelly talk about why we hesitate to speak up about Jesus and how we often overcomplicate it. They share personal stories of both wins and awkward moments, like a simple conversation at a restaurant that led to a concert invitation—or an unexpected confrontation on a tennis court.

The girls remind us that sharing Jesus isn’t about having all the right answers or delivering a perfect sermon. It’s about being open, authentic, and willing to plant seeds wherever God places us. Plus, they offer practical ways to make faith-sharing a natural part of everyday life (yes, even at the dentist’s office!).

✨ 3 Takeaways

1️⃣ Keep It Simple – You don’t have to prepare a full sermon. Just share how God is working in your life naturally, in everyday conversations.

2️⃣ Don’t Fear Rejection – Not every conversation will go smoothly, but that doesn’t mean it was a failure. God is working behind the scenes.

3️⃣ Be Ready – Having a 60-second testimony or a go-to faith story can help you feel more confident when opportunities arise.

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Discipleship. It’s one of those words we hear a lot, but what does it really mean? Carol, Tricia, and Kelly are digging into the real process of growing in faith, being mentored, and walking alongside others. Spoiler: It’s not about having it all together. It’s about being honest, intentional, and open to following the Lord as you go.

The girls share personal stories about their own discipleship experiences—some that shaped them in the best ways and others that challenged them to rethink what spiritual growth actually looks like. They unpack the power of community, the importance of asking “Who is discipling me?” and how to create a spiritual growth plan that actually works for your life.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re supposed to have it all together or wondered if you’re even growing at all, this episode will encourage you to take the next step—whatever that may be.

3 Key Takeaways from This Episode:

1️⃣ Spiritual Growth Takes Intentionality – Just like physical health, faith requires a plan. Whether it’s daily Bible reading, finding a mentor, or joining a community, growth doesn’t happen by accident.

2️⃣ You Don’t Need a “Perfect” Mentor – Discipleship isn’t always formal. Sometimes, the people who help us grow are the friends who challenge us, the elders who guide us, or the moments God uses to speak into our lives.

3️⃣ Stop Checking the Box—Start Abiding – Bible reading shouldn’t be about getting through a checklist. Meditating on Scripture, reflecting on its meaning, and applying it to life will transform your walk with God in ways a “read-the-Bible-in-a-year” plan never will.

“Depression and anxiety are bullies. They push every other emotion aside, but God gives us the power to push back.” - Tricia

Feeling down, anxious, or just… off? You’re not alone. Carol, Tricia, and Kelly dive deep into the realities of depression and anxiety, especially during the colder months. From their own struggles to practical ways to fight back, the girls get real about mental health and faith.

Ever feel guilty about needing alone time? Struggle to get out of a funk? Wonder if God is even listening? The girls share what’s helped them, from therapy to scripture to a good old-fashioned walk outside. This episode is full of honest conversation, practical encouragement, and the reminder that you are never alone.

3 Key Takeaways:

1. Your thoughts shape your emotions – The self-talk you engage in can either fuel anxiety or help bring peace. Replacing lies with truth from Scripture is a game-changer.
2. Connection is healing – Isolation can make depression and anxiety worse. Even small steps like meeting a friend for coffee or joining a Bible study can bring light into dark seasons.
3. Faith isn’t about having it all together – It’s okay to be honest with God about your struggles. He meets us where we are, even when we don’t have the strength to run to Him first.

Are you overwhelmed by the clutter in your life—both physical and mental? Join Carol, Tricia, and Kelly as they share heartfelt, funny, and practical insights on simplifying life. From letting go of material possessions to creating quiet moments with God, the girls explore what it really means to live simply in a world that screams for more.

They discuss the challenges of slowing down, embracing gratitude, and trusting God’s provision, offering relatable stories and tangible steps to declutter your space, your schedule, and your soul. Plus, don’t miss their hilarious attempts to imagine tiny house living, complete with “moo cows.”

3 Key Takeaways:

1. Simplifying is a Process, Not Perfection: Start small—five minutes of quiet, giving away one item, or clearing one cluttered space. Progress matters more than perfection.
2. Let Go to Grow: Holding on to too much—whether it’s possessions or worries—limits how much room we have for peace, joy, and trust in God.
3. Gratitude is Transformative: Focusing on what you have, rather than what you lack, shifts your perspective and frees your heart to embrace God’s abundance.

Recorded live at Hickory Bible Church, Kelly shares heartfelt stories about the greatest gift of all—Jesus, the hope of past, present, and future. Whether it’s unwrapping unexpected gifts, waiting on God’s timing, or running with hastetoward Jesus, this episode will remind you of the true meaning of Christmas.

On Trusting God’s Timing: “The Israelites waited centuries for a Savior—and sometimes the greatest gifts come in the most unexpected ways.”

Remember:

• Jesus is the Gift for Every Season:
  Whether you’re in a season of waiting, grief, or joy, Jesus is not just the baby in the manger—He’s our present hope and future rescuer.

• God’s Gifts Often Look Different Than We Expect:
  Sometimes the gifts we receive—like a handmade tree or a humble Savior—aren’t what we imagined, but they’re exactly what we need.

• Jesus is Praying for You Right Now:
  He knows your struggles, your fears, and your joys. Let this Christmas be a time to run toward Him and share the hope you’ve found with others.

"Being perfectly imperfect this Christmas is okay – that’s when people see the real Jesus in us." -Kelly

The holidays can bring so much anticipation, but they can also bring stress, exhaustion, and unmet expectations. Carol, Tricia, and Kelly gathered live at Hickory Bible Church for a heartfelt and fun Christmas conversation about keeping Jesus at the center of this season. 

From childhood stories of disappointing gifts (hello, Oral B toothbrush!) to reflections on Hurricane Helene’s aftermath, the girls share how slowing down, leaning into community, and clinging to God’s hope can transform the season.

Settle under the glow of your Christmas lights and join us as we remember what matters most this season: Jesus.

3 Takeaways from the Episode:

1. Be Still and Reflect – Whether it’s sitting by the Christmas tree lights or pausing for quiet moments, take time to slow down and focus on Jesus.
2. Embrace Imperfection – The perfect Christmas doesn’t exist, but God’s hope shines brightest when we’re real, honest, and imperfect.
3. Find and Share Hope – When life feels overwhelming, lean into God’s promises and look for ways to share hope with others in your community.

Christmas is full of joy, love, and sometimes tears. In this episode, Carol, Tricia, and Kelly talk about their favorite holiday traditions, from Advent devotionals to nativity sets that bring the neighborhood together. They also talk about balancing the season’s joy with the weight of grief, offering encouragement for those missing loved ones during the holidays. With laughs, relatable stories, and practical advice, the girls remind you that Christmas doesn’t have to be perfect—it just needs to be meaningful. Grab some hot chocolate, light your favorite candle, and join the conversation about making this holiday season all about Jesus.

• Intentional Traditions Can Be Transformative

  • Carol, Tricia, and Kelly share how meaningful traditions, like setting up an Advent wreath or a nativity set, can help families stay focused on Jesus during the holidays. Carol reflects on the joy of decorating early this year and finding ways to keep Jesus at the center.

• Balancing Joy and Grief During the Holidays

  • The girls talk about navigating grief during the holiday season, with Carol reflecting on the loss of her mother and how she’s working to celebrate her mom’s favorite traditions. Kelly and Tricia offer practical advice, like creating an escape plan for overwhelming moments and giving yourself grace.

• Releasing Unrealistic Expectations

  • Carol admits the pressure of Pinterest-perfect holidays can feel overwhelming, while Tricia shares her strategy of keeping decorations simple and the same every year. Together, they encourage listeners to embrace authentic celebrations that reflect their values rather than societal pressures.

Girls, let’s talk about hospitality—real, messy, perfectly imperfect hospitality. This Christmas, we’re unpacking what it really means to welcome people into our homes and lives. Spoiler: it’s not about the Pinterest-perfect decor or the five-star meals (thank goodness!).

We’re sharing funny stories, honest struggles, and the joy that comes when we let go of perfection and focus on what truly matters—connecting with others and sharing Jesus’ love.

So grab your coffee and settle in for a chat that’ll leave you laughing, reflecting, and maybe even inspired to open your home this season, mismatched placemats and all!Main Points

1. Redefining Hospitality: The hosts discuss shifting the focus from outward appearances to creating spaces where others feel welcome and loved, mirroring the heart of Christ.
2. The Power of Vulnerability: Through funny and poignant personal stories, they explore how embracing imperfection opens the door to deeper relationships and spiritual growth.
3. Hospitality as Ministry: Practical ways to build relationships with neighbors and community members, especially those with different beliefs, as an opportunity to share the Gospel authentically.

Gratitude doesn’t always come easy, especially in a world that pulls us to look forward or backward. But what if the secret to contentment is simply being present? Join Carol, Kelly, and Tricia as they unpack the joys and challenges of gratitude—from navigating difficult seasons to appreciating life’s smallest blessings. With stories of real struggles, honest laughter, and heartfelt truths, this episode dives deep into why gratitude isn’t just a feeling but a choice rooted in faith.

Learn practical ways to cultivate thankfulness, even when it feels forced, and discover how God uses gratitude to transform our hearts. Whether it’s the value of a quiet moment, the unexpected blessings in hardship, or the joy of simply being still, you’ll leave inspired to embrace the beauty of now.

Main Points:

1. Gratitude is a Choice: Choosing to give thanks—even when it feels forced—can reshape our hearts and minds.
2. Be Present: True contentment and gratitude grow when we embrace the present instead of looking back or ahead.
3. Find God in the Small Things: From a hug to a moment of stillness, God’s blessings often come in everyday moments.

What’s the difference between judgment and discernment? In this episode of Girl Talk Podcast, Carol, Kelly, and Tricia dive into these two concepts that Christians often wrestle with. They talk about how judgment can harm relationships, while discernment, grounded in humility and prayer, fosters understanding and growth. We'll learn practical ways to align our hearts with God’s perspective, offering a path to grace and truth.

Whether it’s relationships, decisions, or navigating life’s challenges, this conversation reminds us that discernment helps and judgment hurts—but only when we’ve addressed our own hearts first.

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Today’s episode tackles a challenge familiar to many—praying for those who have hurt us or even those we might label as “enemies.” Carol, Tricia, and Kelly dive into real-life struggles with forgiveness - from letting go of grudges to truly praying for someone who has wronged you, they explore what it means to follow Jesus’ call to love and forgive even when it feels impossible.

Whether you’re dealing with minor annoyances or deep wounds, this conversation reminds us that, in the process of forgiveness, God does a transformative work within us too. Join the girls as they laugh, reflect, and get real about the journey of releasing bitterness and embracing God’s grace.

Heart Check:

1. Praying for our enemies often leads to internal growth and healing rather than just external changes.
2. Forgiveness is not a one-time act; it’s a continuous choice that sometimes requires revisiting the pain.
3. Embracing forgiveness allows us to reflect Jesus’ love, impacting others and strengthening our witness.

Take it with you:

1. Prayer is a journey: Start with small, genuine prayers, even when forgiveness feels forced. Over time, God can change our hearts.
2. Forgiveness is about freedom: Choosing to forgive frees us from bitterness and brings peace, even in challenging situations.
3. See the person, not just the offense: Remembering others are also made in God’s image helps soften our hearts and offers a way to love as Jesus loved.

Election season can bring out strong emotions, especially when the results don't align with our expectations. In this episode of the Girl Talk Podcast, the ladies dive into how to keep a Christ-centered perspective when navigating the political landscape. They remind us that no president or candidate can truly save the world — only Jesus can.

Social Media Quotes:

1. “Jesus isn’t up for election, and thank God for that — He’s the only one who can truly bring hope!”
2. “Our hope isn’t in who sits in the White House, it’s in the One who sits on the throne.”
3. “Love your neighbor. That’s what matters, not who they voted for.”

Main Points:

1. God is in control no matter who wins the election. The ladies remind us that our hope is in Jesus, not political leaders.
2. Engage in loving, respectful conversations. Instead of yelling or staying silent, there is a middle ground of love-informed, faith-based dialogue.
3. Pray for leaders, even those you didn’t vote for. We are called to pray for all leaders, trusting that God can work through anyone.

Takeaways:

1. Your hope should be in Jesus, not in political outcomes. Regardless of election results, God’s plan is never thwarted.
2. Engage in politics with humility and love. Don’t sacrifice relationships in the name of being right; seek to understand others and love them well.
3. Pray for revival. The greatest change happens when hearts are turned to Christ, and revival starts with prayer.

In this episode of the Girl Talk Podcast, Carol, Kelly, and Tricia talk about lessons learned over the years, regrets, and how to live intentionally today.

The conversation explores the difference between chasing the "American Dream" and living in alignment with God’s purpose, the importance of eliminating busyness, and finding peace in letting go of societal pressures.

Join the girls as they reflect on what they would tell their younger selves and share tips for becoming the godly women they aspire to be.