Fred Talisman MFT Busts the Myths|Non Useful Beliefs that Can Put Your Relationship In Jeopardy

In this episode of the Label Free Podcast, host Deanna Radulescu welcomes back relationship expert Fred Talisman for an enlightening discussion on non-useful beliefs that can jeopardize relationships. With over 50 years of experience as a licensed marriage and family therapist, Fred shares his insights on the common myth that it takes two people to save a relationship. He emphasizes that often, one partner can initiate positive change, even if the other is unwilling to seek help. The conversation delves into the importance of communication, particularly the misconception that honesty is always the best policy. Fred explains how honesty can sometimes be wielded as a weapon, and he advocates for a more constructive approach that focuses on making partners feel loved and respected.

Listeners will learn about the significance of choice points in communication, where individuals can choose how to express their feelings in a way that fosters connection rather than conflict. Fred also discusses practical strategies for maintaining trust in relationships, such as under-committing and using reminders to keep promises. The episode concludes with an invitation for listeners to access a free PDF containing 23 myths about relationships and how to counter them, available at https://saveyourrelationship.com/myths. Tune in to gain valuable tools for nurturing and repairing your relationships, and remember to live label-free!