188: Fortune 500 Coach: The "Success" Lie That Is Killing Men! Stop Being A Robot! with Rob K.

You achieved the money, the car, and the title... so why do you feel empty?

In this episode, I sit down with Rob Kalwarowsky, an MIT-trained engineer turned elite executive coach who has worked with everyone from Olympic Gold Medalists to Fortune 500 executives. But before the success, Rob was "The Robot"—a high-achiever who saved his company tens of millions of dollars while secretly battling a toxic work environment that led him to a suicide attempt.

We uncover the "Success Lie" that keeps men isolated, overworked, and unfulfilled. Rob reveals the "DIY Mask" that caps your business growth, the specific phrase that predicts burnout in 6 months, and the "I'm Human" leadership method that can turn your internal chaos into your greatest competitive advantage.

If you feel like you're carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders, this conversation is your permission to put it down.

◼️ Topics Discussed:

The "High Performer Robot" mindset and why it’s deadly.

How to spot the "Trappings of Success" before it’s too late.

Why your "Do It Yourself" mask is costing you millions.

The "I'm Human" code word strategy for high-stress teams.

Internal Family Systems: How to manage the voices in your head.

Chapters

00:00 - The "Success Trap" Trailer 

1:47 - The "Rob Kawasaki" Story & Identity 

2:22 - Turning Internal Chaos Into An Advantage 

4:16 - The "High Achieving Robot": Making Millions, Feeling Nothing 

08:35 - The Breaking Point: Depression & The Suicide Attempt 

12:36 - Waking Up: Why We Go Back To Work After Rock Bottom 

16:13 - The "Status Quo" Bias: Why You Can't Leave Your Toxic Job 

20:00 - Internal Family Systems: Who Is Controlling Your Brain? 

26:31 - The "DIY Mask": Why You Are The Bottleneck In Your Business 

31:00 - The "I'm Human" (or Cheesecake Factory) Strategy 

35:23 - The "Pointless" Feeling of Winning 

42:58 - The Hawaii Moment: Choosing Freedom Over Fear

Kalwarowsky's Links

Website: www.robkalwarowsky.com

LinkedIn: rob-kalwarowsky

Instagram: bosscoachrobk

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