043: Commit to the Process, Increase Your Value, & Match the Moment with Arjun Dhingra

In this episode of The Modern Man, I welcome Arjun Dhingra, a Mortgage Banker, Coach, and 2x TaeKwon-Do World Champion. Arjun’s passion is helping people level up and win. Whether that's going from renter to owner, saver to investor, or athlete to world champion - he's committed to making his clients' dreams come true. His ability to do that comes from his own commitment to making his dreams come true, a unique process we can all learn from.

If you need a push towards getting your priorities straight, committing to your goals, or simply increasing the value you provide as a man so you can level up in life, this episode is for you. Arjun shares incredibly powerful insights from his 35-year journey in martial arts and business, finding a life partner, and becoming a father. The gems of wisdom he drops in this discussion will definitely leave you ready to apply them to your own life, so tune in!

“The single greatest, simplest thing that you can do is figure out what it is you bring to the table, improve where you’re deficient, and pour into it relentlessly because if you do, you’ll be a better human being.” – Arjun Dhingra

On my wedding day, my father told me, “The way a man moves a mountain is by moving small stones.” This applies to any area of life – your marriage, career, self-development, sports, the way you overcome trauma, anything! So, let’s start collecting stones.

“Whether you’re there to impact, to influence, to gain something, to give something, whatever it is, there’s a much greater chance of success if you are equal to the moment.” – Arjun Dhingra

Key Takeaways / What You’ll Learn:

[01:49] About Arjun Dhingra.

[04:57] “The start to anything is all about a fixation and commitment to process and detail.”

[10:17] Lessons learned from martial arts on how to overcome challenges and adversity in business.

[11:42] The importance of men practicing humility and responsibility & How to be equal to the moment.

[16:49] Priorities & Sacrifice: How family and fatherhood influences his roles as a coach and business owner.

[23:36] How to increase your value as a man, especially before finding a partner and starting a family.

[30:11] What Arjun credits his growth and success to.

[32:33] How to connect with Arjun.

[35:19] As a man, what has shaped your view of the world?

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Resources Mentioned:

23 Books Every Man Should Read In 2023 To Jumpstart His Growth: https://bit.ly/42iKgML

The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho: https://www.amazon.com/Alchemist-Paulo-Coelho/dp/0061122416

Connect with Arjun:

Visit his website: https://www.arjundhingra.com

Follow him on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/arjunmortgage

Connect with him on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/arjunmortgage

Connect with him on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/arjunmortgage

Subscribe to his YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_6WPusOpF0aHuCKJR_f-AQ

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