The Impact of an Absent Father w/ Jeaneen Tang
Published on Oct 21, 2025, 11:14:44 PM
Total time: 00:59:43
Published on Oct 21, 2025, 11:14:44 PM
Total time: 00:59:43
What happens when a daughter grows up without her dad—and how does that absence echo into the rest of her life?
In this deeply moving conversation, we sit down with Jeaneen Tang, a Los Angeles–based speech-language pathologist, author, and mom, who opens up about growing up without her father, breaking generational cycles, and using her own story to guide how she raises her son today.
Jeaneen’s story reminds every father that the quiet moments—the ones we think don’t matter—are often the ones our daughters carry the longest. From learning to build self-worth without validation to understanding the lifelong effects of presence and absence, this episode is a call for dads everywhere to lean back into what truly matters: being there.
We also talk about her work as a speech therapist and her powerful approach to early childhood communication outlined in her new book, Play Dumb and Sabotage—a mindful guide for parents who want to help their children build confidence and language through connection.
Book: Play Dumb and Sabotage — available on Amazon and all major audiobook platforms
00:00 – Intro: Welcome to The Daughtered Podcast
01:12 – Growing up without a present father
05:58 – Learning self-worth when love feels conditional
09:44 – How absence shapes confidence and relationships
13:22 – The moment she realized she had to break the cycle
17:50 – “Presence over Provision” — what daughters truly remember
23:11 – Lessons for fathers: listening, showing up, and dropping the ego
28:40 – How childhood wounds impact how we parent
33:15 – Building language, confidence, and connection with kids
37:42 – Why fathers should ask for help and lead without pride
41:00 – Everyday ways to strengthen the father–daughter bond
45:55 – Closing reflections: Be the dad you wish you had
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Welcome to the Daughtered Podcast — where dads come to talk, grow, and thrive. I’m your host, Oscar, and this is a space for men who are committed to becoming stronger, more mindful, and more present—especially in the lives of their daughters. We believe that fatherhood is a journey of growth. Each conversation on this podcast is a chance to learn, reflect, and level up as a dad and as a man. Whether you’re a brand-new father or deep into the teenage years, we’re here to support each other through every stage. Being Daughtered means embracing the lessons our daughters are continuously teaching us and using them to become better. We challenge current misconceptions of masculinity and lead with strength, compassion, and intention—building stronger relationships and lasting memories along the way. This community is for every man who’s ready to show up—not as a perfect dad, but as a growing one.
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