Success Story with Scott D. Clary
Published on Sep 18, 2024, 10:03:53 PM
Total time: 00:13:06
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In this "Lessons" episode, we explore the complex and often high-stakes world of negotiating with narcissists, guided by expert Rebecca Zung, a top narcissist negotiation expert and bestselling author. Rebecca shares her unique S.L.A.Y. methodology, emphasizing the critical steps needed to successfully navigate negotiations with narcissists, highlighting the importance of strategy, leverage, and a focus on self-preservation.
The S.L.A.Y. Methodology: Rebecca introduces her S.L.A.Y. framework, which stands for Strategy, Leverage, Anticipate, and focusing on You. This step-by-step method is essential for dealing with narcissists, helping you develop a solid strategy, find leverage, anticipate their moves, and maintain focus on your own goals to achieve a favorable outcome.
Understanding Narcissistic Supply: One of the foundational concepts in negotiating with narcissists is understanding "narcissistic supply." Narcissists operate in a survival mode, seeking validation and control. Rebecca emphasizes that traditional negotiation tactics won’t work—you must recognize that narcissists see the world in terms of allies and enemies, making it crucial to approach negotiations with this mindset.
Ethically Manipulating the Manipulator: Discover Rebecca's concept of “ethically manipulating the manipulator,” where you find and exploit vulnerabilities in a narcissist's ego or public image. This allows you to shift the power dynamic and push for a resolution that meets your needs while minimizing the narcissist's desire to drag out negotiations for their own gain.
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Welcome to the Success Story Podcast, hosted by entrepreneur, business executive, author, educator & speaker, Scott D. Clary (@scottdclary). On this podcast, you'll find interviews, Q&A, keynote presentations & conversations on sales, marketing, business, startups and entrepreneurship. Scott will discuss some of the lessons he's learned over his own career, as well as have candid interviews with execs, celebrities, notable figures and politicians. All who have achieved success through both wins and losses, to learn more about their life, their ideas and insights. He sits down with leaders and mentors and unpacks their story to help pass those lessons onto others through both experiences and tactical strategy for business professionals, entrepreneurs and everyone in between. To get more of the Success Story podcast, go to www.successstorypodcast.com.