Marriage Happy Hacks | Dr. Dave & Dr. Liz | #24
Published on Feb 13, 2023, 6:00:00 AM
Total time: 00:35:21
Published on Feb 13, 2023, 6:00:00 AM
Total time: 00:35:21
On today’s episode of the stronger marriage connection podcast, Dr. Dave and Dr. Liz
discuss some of the top tips they call “Happy Hacks” that help us flourish as individuals and
bring more happiness into our relationships. Strong marriages are built on the virtues and
character strengths of the spouses, so join the conversation to learn what you can do starting today to better yourself and your relationship!
Insights:
Liz: Living amidst conflict hurts our health. Living amidst good, warm, loving relationships is protective.
Dave: If you want to be instantly happy, do something kind. Do something thoughtful, send someone a text, write them a letter, or send them a note. Doing something kind makes you a happier and a positive person and then that spills over into your marriage.
Invites:
● Are there areas in your personal life that you can tweak to be healthier physically and mentally? Where can you create an upward spiral toward greater happiness as an
individual and as a couple?
● Do your facial expressions tell your spouse: “I see you. I notice you. I’m glad you’re
there”? If not, make a goal to show in your facial expressions that you appreciate your
partner.
● Practice mindfulness by intentionally choosing to enjoy your day. Be fully present in each moment without judgment.
● Create a gratitude journal for your spouse. When you’re upset with them, practice the “drop and do 10” exercise by writing down 10 reasons why you appreciate your partner.
Episode Links:
Signature strengths survey - https://www.viacharacter.org/
Robert Waldinger Harvard study ted talk -https://www.ted.com/talks/robert_waldinger_what_makes_a_good_life_lessons_from_the_longest_study_on_happiness?utm_campaign=tedspread&utm_medium=referral&utm_source=ted
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It's often said that marriage takes work. The Stronger Marriage Connection podcast wants to help because a happy marriage is worth the effort. USU Family Life Professor Dr. Dave Schramm and Clinical Psychologist Dr. Liz Hale talk with experts about the principles and practices that will enhance your commitment, compassion, and emotional connection.
More than ever before, marriages face obstacles, from the busyness of work and daily hassles to disagreements and digital distractions. It's no wonder couples sometimes drift apart, growing resentful, lonely, and isolated.
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