Why Is It So Hard to “Just Leave”? The Hidden Realities of Domestic Violence

In this episode of Following Leads, we sit down with Jessica Woolbright, LCSW, Executive Director of Saint Martha’s, a St. Louis organization supporting women and children impacted by domestic violence. Together, we explore what abuse looks like behind closed doors, why leaving is statistically the most dangerous time, how abusers use isolation and children to exert control, and how friends, family, and communities can safely intervene and offer support.

Following Leads is a weekly video podcast hosted by Laura Hettiger that follows the stories everyone is talking about—and the people living through them. From missing-person cases and major investigations to high-profile trials and national tragedies, each episode goes beyond the headlines to explore the questions, consequences, and human experiences at the center of the story.

Through interviews, analysis, and powerful storytelling, Following Leads uncovers the connections between crime, justice, family, and community. Because the most important lead is often the one that reveals how real lives are changed forever.

A production of The Following Leads Podcast Network & Gray Media

Executive Producer/Creator: Wade Smith

Host/Co-Creator: Laura Hettiger