218 - Two Kingdoms Never Work

When does wisdom-driven planning quietly turn into building your own kingdom? And how do you know when “being responsible” with money has started to compete with following God?

In this episode we discuss the incompatibility of serving both God's kingdom and your financial ambitions, emphasizing that money often becomes a distraction, or even a barrier, to faith.

John shares his personal journey of balancing material desires with spiritual fulfillment, highlighting the dangers of building a "little k kingdom" competing alongside God's kingdom plans. 

In this episode, John discusses: 

• How easy it is to say “yes” to Jesus while quietly building a backup financial plan on the side

• Why God’s Kingdom and your own 'little k kingdom' always pulls you in competing directions

• The subtle, unhealthy mindset shift where security, identity, and worth start to come from what you own, control, and keep

• Why money so often becomes a barrier to God, not because money is bad, but because our hearts are vulnerable to drift

• What it looks like to recognize the “kingdom” you’ve been building, bring it honestly before God, and realign your finances with His better plan

Key Takeaways:

• You can genuinely want God’s will and still quietly build a “little k kingdom” on the side, only realizing later that your plans may compete with His.

• Money itself isn’t the problem; the danger lies in the subtle heart shift where security, identity, and worth begin to rest in what you own, control, and keep instead of in God.

• The world’s financial system often appears to work—bigger house, better car, more investments, etc. — but over time, the maintenance, payments, and comparisons can quietly begin to weigh you down and pull you off course.

• Pursuing success without spiritual awareness can come with hidden costs: strained relationships, emotional distance from loved ones, and a growing gap between the life you’re building and the life God is inviting you into.

• Freedom comes from honestly asking, “Am I trying to live in two kingdoms?” and bringing that answer to God—trusting that He can realign your path, provide what you truly need.

“I wanted God’s plan and my plan—His blessings and my stuff, His peace, my portfolio. But two kingdoms never work.” 

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